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We call her creative and assertive. We welcome creativity and assertiveness to sit with us at our tables and inspire us to act.</p><p><strong>Wicked Daughter</strong></p><p>The Wicked daughter is the one who dares to challenge the simplistic answers she has been given.</p><p>She is the one who asks too many questions. She is the one not content to remain in her prescribed place. She is the one who breaks the mold. She is the one who challenges the status quo.</p><p>Some call her wicked and rebellious. We call her daring and courageous. We welcome rebellion to sit with us at our tables and make us uneasy.</p><p><strong>Simple Daughter</strong></p><p>The Simple daughter is the one who accepts what she is given without asking for more.</p><p>She is the one who trusts easily and believes what she is told. She is the one who prefers waiting and watching over seeking and acting. She is the one who believes that the redemption from Egypt was the final act of freedom. She is the one who follows in the footsteps of others.</p><p>Some call her simple and naive. We call her the one whose eyes are yet to be opened. We welcome the contented one to sit with us at our tables and appreciate what will is still to come.</p><p><strong>Daughter Who Does Not Know How to Ask</strong></p><p>Last is the daughter who does not know how to ask.</p><p>She is one who obeys and does not question. She is the one who has accepted men's definitions of the world. She is the one who has not found her own voice. She is the one who is content to be invisible.</p><p>Some call her subservient and oppressed. We call her our sister. We welcome the silent one to sit with us at our tables and experience a community that welcomes the voices of women.</p><p> <em><span>(Used with permission of the Temple Emunah Women's Seder Haggadah Design Committee)</span></em> </p>", "cliptype": "text", "clipsource": "JWA / Jewish Boston - The Wandering Is Over Haggadah; Including Women's Voices", "featured": 1, "featuredIn": { "title": "Women's Seder", "slug": "womens-seder-1", "author": "Haggadot" }, "is_public": 1, "is_published": 1, "media": { "image": null, "audio": null, "video": null }, "thumbnail": null, "clip_section": [ { "haggadah_section": "-- Four Children", "slug": "four-children" } ], "likes": 0, "downloads": 643, "tags": [ { "tag": "Four Children", "slug": "four-children" } ], "themes": [], "language": "0", "is_bookmarked": "0", "is_liked": 0, "meta_tags": { "title": "The Four Daughters | Passover haggadah by Jewish Women's Archive", "description": "Our simple platform allows you to create a custom Passover Haggadah, with access to unique content contributed by our community. 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The disparity between rich and poor is growing, and opportunities for upward mobility are limited. <strong></strong></p><p><strong>Entitlement - </strong>Too many people consider themselves entitled to material comfort, economic security, and other privileges of middle-class life without hard work.<strong></strong></p><p><strong>Fear - </strong>Fear of “the other” produces and reinforces xenophobia, anti-immigrant sentiment, antisemitism, homophobia, and transphobia.<strong></strong></p><p><strong>Greed - </strong>Profits are a higher priority than the safety of workers or the health of the environment. The top one percent of the American population controls 42% of the country’s financial wealth, while corporations send jobs off-shore and American workers’ right to organize and bargain collectively is threatened. <strong></strong></p><p><strong>Distraction - </strong>In this age of constant connectedness, we are easily distracted by an unending barrage of information, much of it meaningless, with no way to discern what is important.</p><p><strong>Distortion of reality - </strong>The media constructs and society accepts unrealistic expectations, leading to eating disorders and an unhealthy obsession with appearance for both men and women.<strong></strong></p><p><strong>Unawareness - </strong>It is easy to be unaware of the consequences our consumer choices have for the environment and for workers at home and abroad. Do we know where or how our clothes are made? Where or how our food is produced? The working conditions? The impact on the environment? <strong></strong></p><p><strong>Discrimination - </strong>While we celebrate our liberation from bondage in Egypt, too many people still suffer from discrimination. For example, blacks in the United States are imprisoned at more than five times the rate of whites, and Hispanics are locked up at nearly double the white rate. Women earn 77 cents for every dollar earned by a man. At 61 cents to the dollar, the disparity is even more shocking in Jewish communal organization. <strong></strong></p><p><strong>Silence - </strong>Every year, 4.8 million cases of domestic violence against American women are reported. We do not talk about things that are disturbing, such as rape, sex trafficking, child abuse, domestic violence, and elder abuse, even though they happen every day in our own communities.<strong></strong></p><p><strong>Feeling overwhelmed and disempowered - </strong>When faced with these modern “plagues,” how often do we doubt or question our own ability to make a difference? 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This variation on the Four Questions challenges us to think about why some things have changed so little:</p><p><span>1) Why is “JAP” still such a popular put-down?</span></p><p><span>2) When women make up the majority of Jewish professionals, why are most Jewish communal organizations still led by men?</span></p><p><span>3) When will people stop thinking it’s only important for girls – and not boys – to learn about Jewish women’s history?</span></p><p><span>4) Why on this holiday, with its theme of liberation, are most seders still led by men and served by women?</span></p>", "cliptype": "text", "clipsource": "JWA / Jewish Boston - The Wandering Is Over Haggadah; Including Women's Voices", "featured": 0, "featuredIn": { "title": "Women's Seder", "slug": "womens-seder-1", "author": "Haggadot" }, "is_public": 1, "is_published": 1, "media": { "image": null, "audio": null, "video": null }, "thumbnail": null, "clip_section": [ { "haggadah_section": "-- Four Questions", "slug": "four-questions" } ], "likes": 0, "downloads": 517, "tags": [], "themes": [], "language": "0", "is_bookmarked": "0", "is_liked": 0, "meta_tags": { "title": "Alternative Four Questions | Passover haggadah by Jewish Women's Archive", "description": "Our simple platform allows you to create a custom Passover Haggadah, with access to unique content contributed by our community. 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The idea of one God, invisible and all-powerful, inspired him to leave his family and begin a new people in Canaan, the land that would one day bear his grandson Jacob’s adopted name, Israel.</p><p>God had made a promise to Abraham that his family would become a great nation, but this promise came with a frightening vision of the troubles along the way: “Your descendants will dwell for a time in a land that is not their own, and they will be enslaved and afflicted for four hundred years; however, I will punish the nation that enslaved them, and afterwards they shall leave with great wealth.\"<br /> <em></em> </p><p>Raise the glass of wine and say:</p><p style=\"text-align:center;\"><span>וְהִיא שֶׁעָמְדָה לַאֲבוֹתֵֽינוּ וְלָֽנוּ.</span></p><p style=\"text-align:center;\">V’hi she-amda l’avoteinu v’lanu.</p><p style=\"text-align:center;\"><strong><span>This promise has sustained our ancestors and us.</span></strong></p><p>For not only one enemy has risen against us to annihilate us, but in every generation there are those who rise against us. But God saves us from those who seek to harm us.</p><p>The glass of wine is put down.</p><p>In the years our ancestors lived in Egypt, our numbers grew, and soon the family of Jacob became the People of Israel. Pharaoh and the leaders of Egypt grew alarmed by this great nation growing within their borders, so they enslaved us. We were forced to perform hard labor, perhaps even building pyramids. The Egyptians feared that even as slaves, the Israelites might grow strong and rebel. So Pharaoh decreed that Israelite baby boys should be drowned, to prevent the Israelites from overthrowing those who had enslaved them.</p><p>The Passover story is most often associated with the leadership of Moses, but in fact the cycle of protest that culminated in the Exodus from Egypt began with the courageous acts of two women who disobeyed Pharaoh’s decree to murder all Hebrew male babies born in Egypt. These women, Shifra and Puah, practiced a bold and noteworthy profession—midwifery. It was their commitment to preserving human life and their skills as midwives that provided the safe and secret delivery of Hebrew baby boys. That the biblical text actually mentions Shifra and Puah by name suggests the ultimate importance of their role in the liberation of the Israelites.</p><p>God heard the cries of the Israelites. And God brought us out of Egypt with a strong hand and outstretched arm, with great awe, miraculous signs and wonders. 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There are still some symbols on our seder plate we haven’t talked about yet. Rabban Gamliel would say that whoever didn’t explain the shank bone, matzah, and <em>marror</em> (or bitter herbs) hasn’t done Passover justice.</p><p>The shank bone represents the <em>Pesach</em>, the special lamb sacrifice made in the days of the Temple for the Passover holiday. It is called the <em>pesach</em>, from the Hebrew word meaning “to pass over,” because God passed over the houses of our ancestors in Egypt when visiting plagues upon our oppressors.</p><p>The matzah reminds us that when our ancestors were finally free to leave Egypt, there was no time to pack or prepare. Our ancestors grabbed whatever dough was made and set out on their journey, letting their dough bake into matzah as they fled.</p><p>The bitter herbs provide a visceral reminder of the bitterness of slavery, the life of hard labor our ancestors experienced in Egypt.</p><p><strong>The Orange</strong></p><p>Even after one has encountered the collection of seemingly unconnected foods on the seder plate year after year, it’s fun to ask what it’s all about. Since each item is supposed to spur discussion, it makes sense that adding something new has been one way to introduce contemporary issues to a seder.</p><p>So how was it that the orange found its place on the seder plate as a Passover symbol of feminism and women’s rights?</p><p>The most familiar version of the story features Susannah Heschel, daughter of Abraham Joshua Heschel and scholar in her own right, giving a speech about the ordination of women clergy. From the audience, a man declared, “A woman belongs on the <em>bima</em> like an orange belongs on the seder plate!” However, Heschel herself tells a different story.</p><p>During a visit to Oberlin College in the early 1980s,<strong> </strong>she read a feminist Haggadah that called for placing a piece of bread on the seder plate as a symbol of the need to include gays and lesbians in Jewish life. Heschel liked the idea of putting something new on the seder plate to represent suppressed voices, but she was uncomfortable with using <em>chametz,</em> which she felt would invalidate the very ritual it was meant to enhance. She chose instead to add an orange and to interpret it as a symbol of all marginalized populations.</p><p><strong>Miriam’s Cup</strong></p><p>A decade later, the ritual of Miriam’s Cup emerged as another way to honor women during the seder. Miriam’s Cup builds upon the message of the orange, transforming the seder into an empowering and inclusive experience.</p><p>Although Miriam, a prophet and the sister of Moses, is never mentioned in the traditional Haggadah text, she is one of the central figures in the Exodus story.</p><p>According to Jewish feminist writer Tamara Cohen, the practice of filling a goblet with water to symbolize Miriam’s inclusion in the seder originated at a Rosh Chodesh group in Boston in 1989. The idea resonated with many people and quickly spread.</p><p>Miriam has long been associated with water. The rabbis attribute to Miriam the well that traveled with the Israelites throughout their wandering in the desert. In the Book of Numbers, the well dries up immediately following Miriam’s death. Of course, water played a role in Miriam’s life from the first time we meet her, watching over the infant Moses on the Nile, through her triumphant crossing of the Red Sea.</p><p>There is no agreed-upon ritual for incorporating Miriam’s Cup into the seder, but there are three moments in the seder that work particularly well with Miriam’s story.</p><p><span>1) As Moses’s sister, Miriam protected him as an infant and made sure he was safely received by Pharaoh’s daughter. Some seders highlight this moment by invoking her name at the start of the </span><em>Maggid</em><span> section when we begin telling the Passover story.</span></p><p><span>2) Other seders, such as this one, incorporate Miriam’s cup when we sing songs of praise during the </span><em>Maggid </em><span>and later during the </span><em>Hallel</em><span> as a reminder that Miriam led the Israelites in song and dance during the Exodus.</span></p><p><span>3) Still others place Miriam’s Cup alongside the cup we put out for Elijah.</span></p><p>Just as there is no set time in the seder to use Miriam’s Cup, there is no set ritual or liturgy either. Some fill the cup with water at the start of the seder; others fill the cup during the seder. Some sing Debbie Friedman’s “Miriam’s Song”; others sing “Miriam Ha-Neviah.” As with all seder symbols, Miriam’s Cup is most effective when it inspires discussion.</p><p>What does Miriam mean to you? 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